????????If you want a harmonious relationship with someone, you have to learn to be more aware. Awareness gives a relationship a new dimension. Then you become fellow travelers. It becomes a friendliness on the path of Life. Then relationship becomes relating, it takes on new colors, new music, new songs, new dances, because awareness opens up the knowing that the other is another you. ????????

????????The secret of sustainable inner growth is AVAILABILITY. A YES to the present moment – irrespective of it’s content. Acceptance only comes when one has reached an inner readiness, if and when one has suffered enough. When we are deeply honest with ourselves we are able to see that we create our own suffering. We see that suffering is NOT caused by a situation but by our own INTERPRETATION of it.????????

“Nature is a totally efficient, self-regenerating system. If we discover the laws that govern this system and live synergistically within them, sustainability will follow and humankind will be a success.” –R. Buckminster Fuller

????????The purpose of all suffering is transformation.????

????????Love never hurts anybody. And if you feel you have been hurt by love, it is something else(pain body) in you, not your loving quality, that feels hurt. This is also true if you cannot be unconditionally available to life. Love and fear can never meet.????????