????????The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. Only then is one capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another – without possessing, without being dependent, without reducing the other as a way to a means, or without becoming addicted to the other. One can allow the other absolute freedom, because one knows that if the other leaves, one will be as content as one was before. One’s inner peace and contentment cannot be taken by the other, because it is not dependent on the other. Then why do people still want to be together? It is no longer a necessity, it simply becomes a sharing. Because one is able to make music as a solo artist, one can play music with another. Now both artists enjoy making music together – both pour their beauty into each other. Realize this today; Love is a Beingness not a NEED.????????